The experience of falling for someone can be both exhilarating and confusing, especially when it seems like the person we are attracted to is not the right for us.
We may find ourselves drawn to people who are unavailable, emotionally distant, or simply not a good match for our goals.
This phenomenon is very common and has puzzled people for generations. While there is no one-size-fits-all answer to all the question about why we fall for the wrong person, there are some common themes and underlying psychological factors that can shed light on this perplexing experience.
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1. You’ll feel empty and resentful after he leaves.
When you encounter a stranger.
Someone who seems sincere at first. And you fall in love.
2. He captivates you.
You think about him daily.
Despite his distance, you converse and text for hours.
3. He disappears one day.
Depressed, lonely, and abandoned.
You’ll think, “How did I allow this happen in my relationship?” since you were smitten by him.
Love strikes.
4. We fall for unrequited love.
Someone who needs attention or validation typically attracts us.
We never recognize that these love at first sight sensations emerge only after they have moved on from their prior relationship.
5. Safe people attract us.
Self-love is the key to finding true love.
If you want an emotionless relationship, choose someone who doesn’t care enough to make you happy.
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6. What people say attracts us.
Believe someone who brags!
They probably don’t care whether they say so.
Don’t believe someone who says he loves you but afterwards betrays you.
You instinctively know he’s lying.
7. We love online strangers.
We often date or sex strangers.
Many of us are hooked on the finest dating apps.
These apps enable global communication.
You should avoid sharing sensitive information and crossing boundaries.
8. Self-confidence attracts us.
You should get along with a potential companion.
You want to date someone who thinks they are good enough and deserve respect.
9. We love before knowing them.
Trust me, meeting new people is scary.
Most people are selfish, focusing on themselves rather than helping others succeed.
That’s why you shouldn’t date low-self-esteem people.
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